Hi, my name is John.... call me Yuehan. I work hard at my career, but enjoy relaxing and having fun when work is done. I am good at what I do, but my work does not define who I am. For the most part, I do not socialize much unless I am with people I know. I workout and keep fit. I value family and few close friends. I am outwardly social and friendly, but not superficial. Deep down, I am introspective and have an immediate aversion for people who I sense are selfish and arrogant. I value people who are trustworthy and kind. I want to keep the closeness and intimacy fresh and alive in my marriage. It is often the little things we do everyday that communicate the most... a kiss, a wink, a note or phone call just to say I love you, flowers, surprises, anything that shows she is important to me, valued and desired. This is the intimacy I desire to share with my woman. I like touch, I want to touch and caress my woman and be touched, caressed by her. I also want us to share open, honest communication so we can grow closer. I will never accept or tolerate staleness to creep into my marriage. Only lazy and selfish people allow that to happen. I also have a playful side and a sense of humor that needs a partner. I am seeking a woman who desires an enduring relationship with someone based on trust, respect and commitment. I am attracted to women who are kind and trustworthy, but have clearly defined boundaries and do not compromise themselves. She must have a warm and loving heart... and a sense of humor is a must.